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Season 1 Tanya & Lisa Season 1 Tanya & Lisa

Episode 2 — The Invisible Woman

We disagree properly in this one. Lisa reckons older women are more visible now than they've ever been. Tanya, having left a senior NHS role to start something from scratch, feels distinctly less so. Somewhere between those positions we get into middle-ageism, perimenopause, Erikson's idea of generativity versus stagnation, and the shift from being valued for how you look to finding meaning in what you contribute. We also introduce our SOS model — submit, opt out, or storm in — and what it looks like to respond as a lifeguard instead.

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Season 1 Tanya & Lisa Season 1 Tanya & Lisa

Episode 1 — Grey Matters

Not sure where to begin? Start right here. In our very first episode, we introduce ourselves, explain a little bit about what schema therapy actually is, and discuss why we decided to turn our years of friendship and professional partnership into this podcast.

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Season 1 Tanya & Lisa Season 1 Tanya & Lisa

Episode 0 — Introduction

Not sure where to begin? Start right here. In our very first episode, we introduce ourselves, explain a little bit about what schema therapy actually is, and discuss why we decided to turn our years of friendship and professional partnership into this podcast.

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Ready To Step Off The Hamster Wheel?

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Casual Listening

Join us for friendly conversations about the stories we tell ourselves. Free, relatable, and easy to watch on your commute, during a walk, or in a quiet moment.

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Deeper Reflection

Want to explore your recurring themes with more structure? Our self-guided mini courses help you notice patterns, understand schemas, and make more conscious choices.

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Personal Support

Ready for one-to-one support? Tanya and Lisa offer professional online therapy to help you explore patterns safely, personally, and at your own pace.

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